I did some proverbial house cleaning... not the real kind of course... my real house is a friggin mess... but hubby is out of the picture and a divorce is pending... please don't ask for details on why... just accept it as fact... to be quite honest, that bird flew the coup many many moons ago... my parents moved in with me for a while, but that became absolutely unbearable, so they moved out... my lil one is doing great... a good friend of mine whom I have known for 20 years (for all intents and purposes, we shall refer to him as the kilted lumberjack... lumberjack for short) has been coming around and helping me all he can... assume what e